Wednesday, September 20, 2006

marriage and morse code

A relationship between two people has a distinctive signature that arises naturally and automatically. That is why a marriage can be read n decoded so easily, because some key part of human activity has an identifiable and stable pattern. Predicting divorce, like tracking Morse code operators, is a pattern recognition.

People are in one of two states in a relationship. The first is called the positive sentiment override, where positive emotion overrides irritability. It's like a buffer.Their spouse will do something bad n they'll say , "Oh he's jz in a crummy mood." Or they can be in a negative sentiment override so that even a relative neutral thing that a partner says get percieved as negative. In the negative sentiment override state, people draw lasting conclusions about each other. If their spouse does something positive, it's a selfish person doing a positive thing.

Read the above in 'blink'. Still reading it but think it's an interesting bk...interesting theories. I shld be the kind in the positive sentiment override state.

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