"Women often define love as a feeling or as an attraction, and choose our life partners on this basis.
What happens when that feeling dies or changes, as all feelings will over time? Do we change partners the way we do in a social dance?
Do we consistently search for the elusive high that we get each time we fall in love with someone?
After being married for 18 years, I have come to the conclusion that love is not a feeling; it is a decision.
Love demands that we choose each other constantly despite coming across alternatives."
--- excerpt frm an article on TODAY ----
Love is a decision but making a decision based on feeling of "love" is not exactly the wise thing to do. However without this "feeling", somehow u will think dat the chemistry is not there. Humans are so ironic.
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